We are granted an opportunity to see a sexual partner whether in fantasy or in reality as a Page 65 of www. Sexuality is a quest for wholeness. Who we are sexually, mirrors who we are on many levels. Psychologically and spiritually, whether we experience masturbation, sex with the opposite or same sexed partner we are being called to integrate the feminine and masculine aspects within us. In the feminine aspect of divinity we can see the ability to conceive, give birth, and transform.
In the masculine aspect of divinity we can see the power to fertilize, impregnate, and generate. Individuals who can speak openly and honestly about their sexual needs will find that they can be respected for their individuality and sexual choices. Couples can negotiate their differences, enabling their relationship to gain intimacy and passion. Good communication and personal agreements are facilitated, giving each partner a more clear understanding of the relationship.
When you experience sexual spirituality you have a wonderful opportunity to experience yourself in a renewed way. You are given the opportunity to heal shame, fear and repression as well as discover your natural, spiritual, sexual, healthy self. You can begin living your daily life in a more balanced, sensuous way, gaining spiritual, sexual knowledge while nurturing yourself and others with love and harmony.
Your connection with yourself, your body, and others will deepen along with your sense of spirituality. You can create healthy boundaries with yourself and you lover s. You can even reach higher levels of sexual intensity and sexual ecstasy. Should you or your partner have a Gynecologist that says your problems are because all women cannot achieve female ejaculation, that it is because it is a myth Again, I always recommend discussing options with a knowledgeable and open-minded Gynecologist to assist in such matters, but here are a couple of alternative suggestions as well- Page 66 of www.
To explain a bit of how it works here is a brief synopsis- The basis of Acupuncture is that the body has an energy force running throughout it. This energy force is known as Chi also spelled Qi, and roughly pronounced "Chee". The Chi consists of the spiritual, emotional, mental and the physical aspects of life. A person's health is influenced by the flow of Chi in the body. Picture Source: World Of Pin-up There are a few theories as to how acupuncture can assist- The Augmentation of Immunity Theory- By some unknown process, Acupuncture raises levels of triglycerides, specific hormones, prostaglandins, white blood counts, gamma globulins, opsonins, and overall anti-body levels.
The Endorphin Theory- Acupuncture stimulates the secretions of endorphins in the body specifically Enkaphalins. The "Neurotransmitter" Theory states that certain neurotransmitter levels such as Seratonin and Noradrenaline are affected by Acupuncture. Page 67 of www. This may be caused by the body's release of Vasodilaters such as Histamine , in response to Acupuncture.
The Gate Control Theory- According to this theory, the perception of pain is controlled by a part of the nervous system, which regulates the impulse, which will later be interpreted as pain. This part of the nervous system is called the "Gate. This prevents some of the impulses from getting through.
The first gates to close would be the ones that are the smallest. The nerve fibers that carry the impulses of pain are rather small nerve fibers called "C" fibers. These are the gates that close during Acupuncture. There are many Acupuncturists in the U. Acupuncturists are licensed independently in most states while some states require you to be a Medical Doctor to practice Acupuncture.
If you do decide to receive the therapeutic effects of Acupuncture, I not only recommend finding out their credentials, but also make sure that they are compatible with your personality. Like a doctor or therapist, you should feel as though you have a good rapport and have trust with your Acupuncturist. To explain a bit of how it works here is a brief synopsis- People who have regular massage often report sleeping improvement, more regular bowel movements, larger handwriting, and increased effectiveness of medications.
In addition to increasing blood flow and assisting in cell regeneration, massage also improves circulation and nutrition of the joints and can increase joint range of motion and flexibility. Massage therapists use a variety of passive motion exercises and resisted stretches, which allows for your body's rigidity and stiffness to be gently challenged as your body is reacquainted with healthy and normal movements.
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In addition to stretching the muscles, and assisting in cell regeneration, moving the body stimulates the production of synovial fluid in the joints for healthy joint lubrication and pain-free movement and re-sets the Picture Source: World Of Pin-up Page 68 of www. So now you know that it not only feels good, but also it is really good for you. Sensual Massage Beginning this month we are starting a serious of seduction secrets that aide couples in becoming the best lovers that they can be. This edition we are focusing on the art of sensual massage.
Creating the mood with candles, music, and a comfortable area to relax and let go is of course the best way to begin. After preparing a space to be warm and pleasing, you can start with a sensual and relaxing general massage before shifting the focus to your partner's sex centers. The idea is to bring your partner to high levels of arousal, and keep him or her there for a while.
Keep your lubricants, oils, and gloves if needed or desired within easy reach, and cover the massage table with a blanket and place a clean sheet over this blanket.
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You can let the sides of the blanket and sheet drape over the sides of the table so that they may be brought up to cover the receiving partner keeping him or her warm after the massage is finished. If you're going to be giving the massage, take a look at your fingernails and clip them if necessary.
The music is beautiful, sensual, mystical, and simply wondrous. Any music from this artist is divine! The Sacred Fire- Nicholas Gunn Unforgettable spiritual rhythms, haunting flute and stirring eternal reverence for the ancient peoples who once tread landscape. Her haunting voice, clear and crisp above richly woven musical arrangements and adaptations, represents some of the best in the genre. Her performances on The Memory of Trees justify the Celtic songster's reputation. Backing vocals come courtesy of the great Miriam Stockley.
Page 70 of www. Turning Point is definitely easy on the ear. Great for meditation and revelation. If you're at all a fan of Semantic Spaces, or Enigma's early work, you'll definitely enjoy Karma. One difference between men and women is that one may use oil-based, water-based, or silicone-based lubricants on men, while one should use only water-based lubricants on women to avoid encouraging vaginal infections.
In this context Nonoxynol-9 is unlikely to do anything but irritate. For genital massage on men, or for massage elsewhere on a man or woman's body, you can purchase special massage oils at massage supply shops or else just use a light vegetable oil such as Safflower, Sunflower, or grape seed from the supermarket.
Lubricants and oils should be reapplied as necessary, so it's good to keep them handy. Page 71 of www. He or she should feel free to mention anything that is getting in the way of his or her comfort and pleasure. Start by quieting and focusing your mind while resting your hands on the receiving partner's upper and lower back. Then, perform a relaxing massage on the back, legs, and feet.
Basic principles of relaxing massage include keeping your hands in contact with your partner, taking your time, being rhythmic yet sensitive, and proceeding from long gliding strokes to deeper ones. After relaxing your partner's back, legs, and feet, have him or her turn over. Massage the chest, arms, and hands. Then glide down to the legs. It can feel good to brush the genitals when going down to the legs. After finishing the fronts of the legs and feet, glide back up and slowly brush over the genitals, teasing them. This teasing process can be drawn out by brushing the inner thighs near the genitals, very lightly touching the pubic region, etc.
At this point erotic energy is often building, making it a natural time to start shifting the focus to more explicitly sexual activities. Page 72 of www. The rest of the massage will focus on the genitals, with periodic sweeps up and down the body to spread, balance, and integrate the sensations. One of the skills that comes with practice is being able to read the energy and arousal levels of your partner, and smoothly and gradually ramp up from relaxing massage to more arousing and sexual massage. The best way to accomplish this is for the man to give a signal just before this point is reached.
Verbal cues, raising a hand, pulling away slightly, or even subtle body language cues can all work well. This repeated "peaking" process can sometimes help men learn to have multiple orgasms without ejaculating, and can also be practiced during solo masturbation.
Although delaying ejaculation during the course of the massage is desirable from the perspective of maximizing pleasure, many partners do like to finish the massage with one. Ejaculation provides a considerable spark of pleasure, but can leave men too fatigued to enjoy the rest of the evening or do a good job massaging their partner; opposite-sex partners who like to finish male genital massage with ejaculation should have the woman receive her massage first. It's also fun to encourage your partner with hot talk possibly weaving together a verbal fantasy based on your partner's desires.
Letting your partner know verbally and non-verbally that you're actively enjoying his pleasure can be a powerful aphrodisiac. As an aside, it should be noted that a nice feature of male genital massage is that an erection is not required for it to feel good; some massage strokes actually feel BETTER when the penis is soft. Unless he indicates otherwise, it's usually safe to assume that firm and consistent stroking will feel best.
One approach that some people favor is selecting two favorite strokes, and for a period of time alternating between them every once in a while. Page 73 of www. The heel of the palm of the other hand glides up and down the underside of the penis all the way to the tip. Double Slide Stroke - Bring one hand down, letting it stroke the penis from the top all the way to the bottom.
When it hits the bottom, release it. Meanwhile bring your other hand to the top of the penis and repeat the stroke, creating an alternating motion. Teaser Stroke - Take the penis in one hand and gently, sensuously caress it for about ten seconds, then give it one quick up-and-down stroke. Repeat the sensuous caressing for about ten seconds perhaps using slow up-and- down strokes , and then give the penis two quick up-and-down strokes. Repeat the caressing, and then give three quick strokes, etc. Continue until ejaculation approaches inevitability.
It's up to the two of you whether to finish with an ejaculation. If you do, then pleasuring can continue all the way through ejaculation and until your partner asks you to stop. This can be a time of profound peace and contentment together. Page 74 of www. It's because of latter that the basic approach to erotic massage differs between women and men. Since women can sometimes enjoy stimulation all the way through one orgasm and into the next, there is little or no need for them to hold back in any way. Having orgasms in a series can cause arousal levels to float for a long time at a very high level.
A common preference is for their partners to begin with gentle rubbing over the entire vulva, to follow this with clitoral stimulation, and to finish with G-Spot stimulation or G-Spot AND clitoral stimulation.
Please be aware that neither clitoral stimulation nor any sort of vaginal penetration usually feels good unless a woman is already in a fairly high state of arousal. When performing genital massage on women one often has a "free hand" which may be used to glide over the rest of her body, tease her nipples, massage her perineum, caress her face, form "connections" with other parts of her body by stimulating some other part of her body at the same time as you are pleasuring her genitals , etc.
Although the genital massage styles presented below are some of the most commonly favored among women, there are many more. Clitoral When massaging her clitoris, learn what part of it feels best to her. Going in circles around it softly and rhythmically with a lubricated finger is a good way to proceed, at least until you get more specific feedback or until you uncover something that obviously feels better.
Once you find something that feels great, consistency with it is often the key to further pleasure. Some women find that clitoral orgasms feel better if their vaginas are pleasantly filled: more fingers or an appropriately-sized dildo are good ways to accomplish this, though penetration of any kind usually Page 75 of www.
G-Spot The G-Spot is an area on the forward wall of the vagina, just behind the pubic bone about two inches in. A woman can often tell you when you've found her G-Spot, and it often feels more "ridged" than the surrounding tissue. Pressing into it can be intensely pleasurable, but may cause a sensation of needing to urinate. Female ejaculation is sometimes, not always a result of G-Spot stimulation; female ejaculate is NOT urine, but IS expelled through the urethra. One easy way to stimulate the G-Spot is with your lubricated first and second fingers together possibly starting with just your first finger.
Make rhythmic gestures inside the vagina that look like the signal to "come here". Alternatively, one can rub the G-Spot in a circular fashion. Generally, it's the pads of your fingers, which are pressing into her G-Spot. Another approach is to rotate your fingers inside her vaginal barrel with even pressure against all areas of it. Be aware that the shape of the vagina changes as a woman's arousal level increases.
You'll probably notice the inner portion ballooning outwards during extreme arousal, which means that your fingers will need to rotate a little farther from center in order to maintain the same pressure on the vaginal walls. G-spot stimulation usually only feels good when the woman is aroused. Vibrator Vibrators generally work best on or near the clitoris.
If the vibration is too intense, switch to a lower speed or put a cloth between the vibrator and her clitoris. It's OK to let your partner hold the vibrator. It's also fun for a vibrator to be used clitoral at the same time vaginal penetration is being performed. Page 76 of www. Letting your receiving partner know verbally and non-verbally that you're actively enjoying giving her pleasure can be a powerful aphrodisiac for her. If the receiving partner forgets to breathe, the massaging partner can remind him or her by breathing rhythmically and audibly.
Some partners find that synchronizing the breathing between the two of them leads to wonderful sensations. Just don't hyperventilate In the minutes preceding it the massage work should be becoming more and more energetic, building and building. At a certain point counted down to verbally, so both partners know when it's coming massage and any other touch ceases, the person on the table takes seven very deep breaths, and while holding the seventh breath clenches every muscle in his or her body and rolls his or her eyes back in his or her head possibly assuming a tense position with torso and legs a bit off the table, as in a "crunch" for about 10 seconds.
Page 77 of www. This practice can provoke profound emotional release, and often hallucinations. Afterwards, the standing partner opens the cocooned sheets, gently towels off any oil, helps his or her partner to sit up, and then both partners either keep silence or say what is in their heart. It's fun to follow this with a hot tub or a warm bath.
It's helpful to use a prearranged and timed music tape. Ideally, there should be five seconds of silence immediately following this, and possibly during it. Music should have been building to that point, and should resume with something really beautiful after the silence following it. This muscle may be identified by noticing what muscles you use to stop the flow of urine when you are urinating without moving your torso or legs ; it's the same one.
The PC muscle can be exercised by contracting and releasing it; one approach is to rhythmically contract when inhaling and relax when exhaling. Generally, the stronger the PC muscle is, the more intense one's orgasms can be. The PC muscle can also be repeatedly contracted and relaxed at various times during sex such as during G-Spot stimulation, or during male ejaculation to increase pleasure. Men can use the PC muscle to prevent ejaculation; this is done by holding the breath while either strongly bearing down "pushing out" or tightly squeezing "holding in" using the pelvic muscles.
Prostate Stimulation an advanced technique in male genital massage is to stimulate the man's prostate gland at the same time one is stimulating the penis. This can be done with a finger an inch or two inside his anus, pressing on the dome shape found in the direction of the penis. When stimulating the prostate, you should wear latex gloves, have short fingernails or else pack cotton balls around your fingernails and then put gloves on , and use lots of lube. Part of what some beginners find novel about anal penetration is that it makes one feel as if one has to go to the bathroom.
By going to the bathroom pretty thoroughly before beginning play, one may have an easier time not interpreting this new sensation in the old context. Page 78 of www. It is also possible for some men to have ejaculatory orgasms through prostate stimulation alone. Simultaneous Pleasuring Once each partner has sufficient experience with his or her own sexual response, they may wish to try mutual stimulation. This is best done on a bed, rather than on a massage table. Simply lie down facing each other, heads close together, and pleasure each other with your hands.
Again, for men slightly pulling away or giving some other cue when ejaculation is imminent will allow play to continue. Page 79 of www. Eating A Balanced Diet- Believe it or not your diet affects you tremendously and eating healthy is a great way to ensure that you sex drive is at a healthy level for you and your partner.
As a psychotherapist and a spiritually natured person, I have not always paid as much attention to my physical health. Like many Americans, I get that internal nagging to take better care of myself, but I have often gone for that quick microwave dinner or passed on working out. My physical struggle has often come from feeling like I was always starving, even though I have struggled with keeping excess weight off.
The truth was that I was starving I was eating too much sugar, and processed foods, and my body was saying, "Yeah, where is what I really need? Don't get me started on the sugar highs and lows I was experiencing, talk about a roller coaster. My favorite way to describe myself when I would walk around like this was to say, "I am wired and tired.
Let me say, that I have read many an article, book and heard the testimonials of the physically healthy whom have preached these eating practices for years, but it never really motivated me. I tasted a few vegetarian meals, and thought them horrible. Being the food lover that I am, I have to have food that tastes good! It has to be quick too During an Asian cooking class I took, I realized that it is not as hard to eat healthy and have it taste good, as I had once thought. Incredible dishes were taught in this class, they took very little time to make, they Page 80 of www.
Not only will your sex drive improve if you begin to eat healthy, you will simply feel better all of the time. Definitely worth looking at! I tried reducing my calories, eating balanced meals, and exercising minutes a day on my exercise bike. Yet, I found that my body had really become used to the larger number of calories that I had been consuming to put the excess weight on in the first place.
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Now, not only was I taking away those calories that my body was so accustomed to, but I was working them off to lose weight and feeling my body get pretty pissed off with me for trying to make this change. I struggled with hunger pain, and felt emotionally raw because I wanted to do this so badly, but was having such a hard time getting through this transitional phase.
Two weeks into my weight loss program, I found I was unable to sleep because I was fighting back hunger pains, and becoming preoccupied with food. This was my fifth attempt at losing weight since the pregnancy, my son was 1 year old and I was really becoming discouraged. I began to cry as I told her how upset with myself I felt that I could not get past a month without slipping back into old habits. I explained to her that I was eating enough calories for my BMI Body Mass Index and had studied nutrition enough to know that I was not making it harder for myself by eating such things as "white carbs;" those carbohydrates that cause you to want more food because you providing it with no significant nutritional value i.
I told my co-worker that if I could just get past the first two months so that I could allow my body to get used to all the exercise, water intake and smaller intake of calories that I knew I would be able to handle it. She smiled a knowing smile as she had gone through the exact same struggle after the birth of her child and put on 80lbs. She asked me if I had ever considered taking a diet drug amphetamine such as Phentermine or Merida.
I know I must of given her a horrified look of shock because she started to laugh and told me that it was not as bad as I thought. Page 81 of www. Now, she had my attention because I was skeptical that something like this was safe or could help me. I began my research.
I was not about to take something like this without really knowing what I was getting myself into. I acknowledge that there is also a stigma to taking an amphetamine as being unhealthy and unsafe and being that I am in the field of holistic health I was not about to jump into this lightly.
The key here is to be educated about using these types of drugs. Before I took this weight loss medication I spent hours researching them and even interviewed two pharmacists and two physicians from different backgrounds. After my research assured me that these drugs were safe and effective, I looked into how I could get a prescription I will refer you to a place online at the end of the article if you are interested.
My friend referred me to a clinic that she had gone to that specialized in weight loss to be evaluated for the prescription. The doctor that I received the prescription from was actually encouraging me to take both Phentermine and Fenfluramine. You may think what kind of Doctor would encourage that!? Well, this was before Fenfluramine was banned in the Doctor's defense, but still What you should know about doctors is that they are not trained well in medications. They are trained primarily in diagnosis and treatment. Pharmaceuticals is a huge money driven business and they love giving doctors samples and kick backs to peddle their medications.
Doctors who do not know any thing more about the drugs than what the drug companies are telling them are just as ignorant at times as to what these drugs negative side effects are as a random person off the street. I mean, haven't you ever wondered why Doctors aren't the ones that distribute medications? There is a good reason for this! Pharmacists are trained in medications. Often they are quite serious when you come to the counter and they are carefully reviewing your prescriptions because they know all too well that Doctors are often careless in writing prescriptions and prescribe medications that can be harmful when mixed with another prescription the patient may already be on.
That is why I interviewed the pharmacists first in my research because I trust their understanding of medications much more than a medical physician. Having read damning information about Fenfluramine which was known to cause health problems cardiovascularly well before they the FDA banned it, I ended up educating the Page 82 of www. This is why I teach empowerment in all that I do through my writing, consults, workshops, etc.
I ended up taking a medication called Bontril. This is similar to Merida, Phentermine and other amphetamines and their side effects are minor and short-term if you are healthy. I lost 40 lbs that I have kept off for three years. You should speak with a doctor to determine if you are generally healthy if you have concerns and you should definitely monitor your blood pressure once or twice every two weeks if you do decide to try these medications as they are known to make it temporarily go up.
Personally, the only side effect I ever had was "dry mouth," meaning I just needed to drink water or suck on a hard candy from time to time as my mouth felt like it was as dry as a cotton ball. What I can say is that using one of these medications is that it may be safer than using Epehdra and Ma Hang found in products like Dexitrim and Metabolife. My opinion is to stay away from things that have not been well documented to not cause harmful side effects, and while this drug may be all right, it is too controversial at this time to really know for certain.
While some find it contradicting for me to say that I promote holistic approaches and still say that I took an appetite suppressant I disagree. Coming from a holistic viewpoint means coming from a place that allows you to view ALL options and to acknowledge when getting assistance may be what you need. Just as there is no shame in a smoker who is trying to quit using Zyban or Nicotine gum to help take the edge of during the withdrawal period, I do not feel there should be any shame in someone who is struggling to lose weight to use aides that will assist them.
Ultimately it should be understood that to loose weight and keep it off you must change your lifestyle, not go on a temporary diet. That is why I stress in the title of this article that using a weight loss medication is short term. If you are interested in taking an amphetamine I will tell you an online pharmacy that is reputable where you can have your choice of several types at the end of this article.
However, before I give you that information I want to say that if you begin taking them, you do need to take the time to go to a local grocery store or other place where you can check your blood pressure at least once every week or two. If it gets high you should get off the medication. Page 83 of www. Remember to keep eating small amounts throughout the day to keep your metabolism going don't want to starve yourself or you will screw yourself by having your metabolism slow down and make sure to get off the drugs after no more than four months.
You should have adjusted to the new life style that you have been working hard at getting adapted to and you do not want to get into a situation where you feel you can not stay thin without taking these drugs all the time. I would like say that there is a lot more to nutrition and exercise that I will cover in later articles on our web site, but for now, I wanted to touch base on weight loss medication as it can be a great help to those you are struggling as I had. Okay, with all that said As you may have figured out by now Good luck and may you achieve all your goals this new year!
You may read more about them, or simply choose to order them online right now by using the link below. The urethra is sensitive and is easily irritated. It is fairly easy to expose the urethra to bacteria, which is harmful, and have it result in a UTI. The activity that can cause a UTI can be sexual or non sexual. A woman who wipes her genitals after urinating back to forward dragging harmful bacteria from the anal region to the urethra can begin the makings of a UTI.
Any sexual activity that provides contact with the urethra whether it is from fingers, a sex toy, the mouth, the penis, etc. To help prevent infections and reduce the chances of irritation, a woman should drink lots of water and urinate just before and right after urethral stimulation, as this assists in cleansing the urethra. Taking precautions such as washing whatever is to come into contact with the urethra beforehand may assist in preventing such an infection. If an infection occurs it is easily treated with antibiotics.
If left untreated the infection can become more serious and spread into the kidneys. However, if you ask most women who have had a UTI, they will tell you that it is terribly painful and something that you would go to a medical facility at 3am so that you could get some relief!
This is important as it may keep a simple medical infection from being treated by antibiotics rather than some more extreme medical treatment such a surgery. Page 86 of www. To determine the problem, these glands can be examined using the tests conducted on men that evaluate for cancer. If these glands remained untreated, and stayed infected they can get clogged up and chronically inflamed causing much pain in the whole pudendal area.
If you are a woman or have a female partner who has a painful g-spot area, then it would be wise to share this information with the treating health professional, as this information is not as commonly known in the medical profession. Graduation from high school had sent them on their separate life paths, but now, sixteen years later, they had reconnected through the Internet. They were instantly attracted to one another; they shared a connection that seemed almost magical. The airport was busy this time of year; Wyl hoped that he would find her quickly in the crowd.
He was eager to see her after all the years, and the little time they would spend together was too precious to waste. He was eager to see her and once again feel the excitement he had felt as a teen being around her. As the passengers went their separate ways with the people who had come to greet them, Wyl got his first glimpse at Brandy. She was stunning. As their eyes met for the first time in over 16 years the attraction was instantly apparent.
Wyl felt his heart begin to race as she looked at him. He wondered if she felt the same excitement too. Even as a teenager Wyl had been drawn to Brandy's infinite beauty and charismatic personality. She was a striking young woman, the type that you look at as you pass her by and end up almost walking backwards in hopes of getting another look. When she would smile you'd swear it was proof that God did in fact love you. In all the years she hadn't changed at all. At 31 years she was the perfect example of poetry in motion. Long blonde hair, and emerald green eyes, the kind you'd be thankful to drown in.
She had a perfectly shaped mouth, painted fire engine red, and just as Wyl had remembered. The pictures of herself she had sent Wyl did little justice for her. As she strode toward him and Wyl moved to embrace her, finally allowing himself to feel her body against his for the first time and it truly felt like a dream. However, really holding her far surpassed any dream he had ever had. The spark he had imagined was there, he hoped she felt it too. The car ride back to Brandy's home was filled with deep conversation and a general feeling of contentment. They felt comfortable with one another and it was apparent in the conversation they had.
Page 88 of www. Her skin was warm and smooth, and she was pleased with the feeling of closeness his holding her hand instilled in her. They pulled up to Brandy's house and parked the car. Wyl grabbed his bags and followed her inside. It was bright and warm inside; so different from the cold Colorado night they had just stepped out of.
Her home smelled of perfume and scented candles. It was a welcoming scent that made you feel at ease. Brandy's home making skills had done a wonderful job, and everything had a warm renaissance feel to it. Brandy led Wyl to her bedroom and showed him where he could put his bags. The room was as richly decorated, as was the rest of the house and whispered promises of an erotic connection. Wyl reached out his hand and slid his it behind Brandy's neck, twining his fingers in her soft, long, blonde hair.
Pulling her close he kissed her lips for the first time, and instantly felt a sorrow for what they had missed in their youth. Her lips were soft as rose petals; they parted as her tongue found his. Never had he experienced a kiss that felt as pure as this. He pulled back and was delighted in the desire emanating from deep within in her eyes.
Brandy had put together a wonderful meal for them, as with everything else she did, her cooking was magical. They talked and laughed over a wonderful meal. Wyl had brought Brandy a gift of wine from a local California winery, which they shared over dinner. After dinner, Brandy suggested a fire, and Wyl agreed that it would be a great way to enjoy the evening together; connecting while watching the flames do a slow dance as the consumed the logs.
Wyl had one request before the fire was built, and that was to take a quick shower. He had to rush from work in order to catch the plane, and hadn't been able to take one before he left to come to her. Brandy said that it was fine, and that she would bring him a towel. The warm water felt wonderful on his skin. The bathroom quickly filled with billowing steam. The shower doors were glass and beaded with water droplets obscuring the rest of the bathroom. Wyl felt rather pleased when saw Brandy enter the bathroom.
He had left the door unlocked in hopes that her curiosity and the desire he had seen in her eyes when they kissed earlier would compel her to join him. She was wearing an open robe that did little to hide the beautiful body it covered. Brandy let the robe fall to the floor and stood nude before him in the rolling clouds of steam.
Her body was something to behold. Every bit as stunning as he had dreamed it would be. Her breasts were perfectly shaped and topped by pink erect Page 89 of www. Her blonde hair spilt over her delicate shoulders and down her back. There was a soft golden tuft of pubic hair between her legs, well trimmed. Wyl was awe struck by her pure physical beauty. She was a Goddess, and no painting or sculpture by the masters would ever be able to capture the beautiful woman that now stood nude before him. Reaching out Wyl took Brandy's hand and drew her into the shower with him.
She eagerly stepped to him, his excitement apparent as his erect cock brushed against her stomach as she stepped even closer. As the water ran over her he kissed her again passionately. There indeed was a fire here, they both felt it, and no amount of water would put it out. Wyl's hands wandered down Brandy's well shaped back until they rested on her rounded ass. He squeezed her little cheeks and felt himself throb where he was pressed against her. Brandy could feel him throbbing too; she took his hard cock in her hand and slowly slid up and down him.
She was pleased to see had this effect on him. The feeling of his cock in her hand was pleasing to her. She had wondered what it would feel like, and now as she felt him she was delighted in exploring his wonderful, hard, thick, cock. Although equally active and hundreds of partners since then I have not encountered another girl since. Married now and wife is 'dry' but multi-orgasmic by clitoral stimulation. I am OK either way but squirting can be a huge turn on. Although 30 years ago I still recall the sensation of warm fluid dripping off and around me as my girl and I had sex on top of a desk in my bedroom.
I am another woman who on occasion can emit quite copious amounts of ejaculate--or as the ancient Tantric's referred to it in Sanskrit Amrita divine nectar. I destroyed one lover's mattress, when I was in my early twenties, after a couple years worth of soaking it, and afterwards, took precautions, being there is no "typical" amount of flow, from one day to the next. I rely on a large sheeting of shower curtain, under a towel, either standing, or on a bed, during sexual play.
I have completely soaked towels to the point of them dripping into the tub, when hung to dry. While I have never attempted to measure the quantity, I might imagine it takes a quart of liquid or so, to drench a bath towel, to the extent, fluid could be wrung from it? I also had a partner slipping around on bathroom tile before, after a bath mat, became completely soaked, so, one needs keep safety in mind too.
I sincerely doubt there are any props involved, in these "squirting" portrayals in pornography. In fact, I read an interview with one star, who mentioned, that she brings herself to clitoral orgasm with a wand vibrator first, prior to filming, to ensure that the flow will be captured on film, during penetration. I also recently read, that porn star Marcus London, is producing educational video, to teach men how to reliably elicit this orgasmic response from their lover.
I am 69 years old and had my first experience with female ejaculation during a love making session with my boyfriend. I don't know what caused it or where it came from but I produced quite a lot of fluidand I was quite wet. My partner was happily stunned and happy to be a part of this new experience. I hope I can do this again with a towel on the bed next time.
I'm another female who can ejaculate! I can produce quite copious amounts of fluid, what i usually find is that my clitoral orgasms start to blend into one-another resulting in an almost continuous dribble of fluid interspersed with climaxes that produce a definite spurt of fluid.
Interestingly, I seldom ejaculate when I experience a vaginal or Gspot orgasm, almost always happens during clitoral orgasms. I am now 57, I have been able to produce this fluid since puberty as far as i can remember, but it wasn't until I started doing regular pelvic floor muscle exercises 27 years ago that I developed the ability to make the fluid "squirt" out.
Surely in order to ejaculate the quantities which I've witnessed, be it a tablespoon or enough to fill an 8 ounce glass, there must be a bladder like reservoir within the female's anatomy to store up the fluid you ladies swear you are ejaculating. No organ or gland can instantly create that volume of fluid - on demand.
That's not cum ladies, that's piss. It's sad indeed that a minority feels it necessary to change several years of basic human anatomical science in order to fit their own personal mental health needs. My husband loves to give me oral stimulation on my clit. I used to come but now I have huge amounts of ejeculation.
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It's clear and tasteless but 4 towels under me and the sheet and mattress protector and mattress all got soaked! He just kept going and I kept going! I am only able to do this when I am smoking cannabis though. I think it's because It allows me to get out of my head and stop thinking all the time, thus just feeling the sensation. My husband adores it which turns me on even more. I can keep going over and over for around 20 mins then I will feel empty and spent. I'm 33 and have only had this ability since February when I smokes.
Canabis to help with pain for a medical condition. I also had a radical hysterectomy 8 weeks ago and since then it's insane! I think some women do some times, not all times. When a woman ejaculate she must have to be reached climax, and when ejaculate she will wet the bad but it is vary from person to person such as periodical fluid,which is also vary from person to person, vary on age, vary due to gynecological organ,not all vagina produce same kind and same amount of lubricant during intercourse.
And in order to ejaculate she must have climax condition and it is not all time possible to reach her at climax condition and like man they are not all time finish by ejaculation, some times they finish just showing no visual sign just the man will see that his lady finished,she is no more feeling any joy,she is laughing etc. I recently had the feeling that I was going to pee if my partner kept up the vigorous manual massage of my vaginal canal, so I told her to stop! So is this what it's supposed to feel like in the lead-up to female ejaculations?
The first time this happened to me I was being stimulated by fingers and I thought I either pissed myself or my water broke I was 8 months pregnant. Went to the doctor to make sure it wasn't amniotic fluid and it was neither amniotic nor was it urine. It wasn't until a few years later that it happened again. Then it started happening all the time.
It happens while having vaginal sex, it happens from pure clitorial stimulation, it happens when he goes down on me and I can masterbate, just hand or toys and do the same. Sometimes it is a small amount, a half a cup at most. Other times it is copious amounts, extremely powerful and can shoot out a good 3 to 4 feet. It is not urine and anyone who thinks it is has never actually dealt with it.
It is an amazing sensation and I wish all women could let themselves go enough to experience it. Nobody has ever indicated what this gland is known as or where this reservoir of fluid is located inside the female body. Mostly because there is no reservoir, bladder or gland which produces and stores this magical fluid which only gets 'ejaculated' during sexual arousal.
Even the mention of the Skene gland doesn't bother to point out where the actual reservoir resides inside your bodies. Because there isn't one. Where is this mystical reservoir located in the female body? Its location has never been documented. But, perhaps you know where it's at? The para-urethral glands in women that produce female ejaculate apparently work the same way.
The prostate is both a gland and a reservoir. It's also the size of a walnut most are, on average. The skene is the size of a fingernail clipping. No comparison. Better stick to your specialty, whatever it is. A male ejaculation is mostly semen from the prostate gland, incidentally. You did know that? And in younger men, who can experience a few ejaculations an hour, it's telling just how large that reservoir is. As I read the literature, I'm persuaded that it's real, that some women do release non-urine fluid on orgasm.
If you feel differently, there is some research support for your position. But in my view, the current weight of the evidence supports female ejaculation. We'll have to wait and see how this controversy is resolved. I fully understand your position, it makes no sense.
The only reason I'm even reading this forum is because I would very much like to know where it's coming from, it's my own body, and yet I have no idea. If I never experienced this myself I'd be just as sceptical, however it's most definitely not urine. It can come to pints or more. It's very often thickish, unlike urine.
It can be transculant white in colour. It actually smells very nice: fresh, slightly bitter smell. Absolutely nothing like urine. At least for me, it's entirely different sensation from urination. Other commenters mentioning similarities does not sound right to me at all not judging, just talking from my own experience. I'd like to know where it's coming from, as the amounts of liquid have to come from somewhere - you are obviously a professional in some human body related field, and you are claiming it's an impossibility - that intrigues me, but also angers me - not because of your opinion I get why you think that , but simply because quite obviously there hasn't been enough, or practically any research done on this subject, as no one can answer the basic question required to even talk about it from human biology point of view.
It concerns my body and I'm very curious so it bugs me. The female lays on her back. The other partner male or female!! The deeper the better. Repeat this motion.
Go faster and faster until it happens and keep going as long you can even when it's happening and more come out. And the fluid released when 'squirting' was a diluted version of the urine that was collected when they emptied their bladders. I was unaware of the chemical analysis you cite. Please post the reference here. I'm eager to read it, and if you're correct, I will update my discussions of female ejaculate. The present data based on ultrasonographic bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity, although a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions to the emitted fluid often exists.
J Sex Med ;— I appreciate the citation. I've followed it to more studies, all very interesting. The pendulum swings. Taoists are very fond of foreplay and know that with prolonged stimulation, the 3 sacred waters start to be produced. The clitoris, the g-spot and the cervix, referred to in Taoist terminology as the three gates, all play an essential role in the release of the three waters ambrosia.
For the sake of simplicity I will discuss the 3 gates see diagram in the sequence of most surface to most deep. The first gate is known as the clitoris. This tiny jewel is often difficult to locate, and always unique in its erotic fingerprint. Each woman will have her own code to unlock this gateway. Using her own juices created by the foreplay is a fantastic way to awaken the clitoris, as these are designed for this very purpose. Her own essence will be more arousing then synthetics or saliva, though both of these have their place.
She may also need to pull back her hood gently to expose this tiny knob of bliss. Part of the adventure of activating clitoral ejaculation is patience on behalf of the giver and receiver. Clitoral stimulation can at times be irritating to a woman, yet if she can stay open in her heart and surrender to receiving pleasure fully as well as communicate her needs, the irritation will pass and she will be able to further relax and produce the 1st water, or clitoral ejaculation.
Breathing techniques and awareness of circulating the sexual energy through the micro-cosmic orbit, the ren and du channels qi gong and acupunture meridians will help redirect some of the intense arousal energy away from the clitoris and up to the brain and the rest of the body, thus enhancing the capacity for pleasure. The clitoris is known to Taoists to have direct connection to the pineal gland, thus stimulation and redirecting the aroused chi energy can further enhance the orgasmic experience.
The clitoral ejaculate can come from the skenes glands, which open on either side of the urethra, the bladder or both. This liquid is very clear and light. The first water and orgasm will further stimulate the glands in the endocrine system to become alert and activated. This fuller activation is part of the process to having a woman experience higher orgasm instead of a short lived, genital orgasm.
This leads us to the second gate, or the g-spot goddess spot. By now the woman will have had at least one orgasm and will be quite aroused, thus making her 2nd gate available for opening. Firm, gentle and patient stimulation with loving intent will enable the g-spot to activate. It is common for a woman to feel the urge to urinate during this session clearing the bladder beforehand can ease the mind. This would make sense as the kidneys start to activate their production of the 2nd water aldosterone transformed urine and fill the bladder.
Relaxation is key to the 2nd water flow. This particular massage is deeply sacred and can induce feelings of vulnerability and even anger. With awareness and warm, loving, heart energy, deep healing can occur as a side effect of this activation. Both partners can start to breathe more deeply and encourage sounds to come from deep within the body.
The activation of the throat center voice also lends to opening this gate. In the Tantric traditions the throat chakra and sex chakra are intricately linked and effect each other. Voice activation will help further activation of the sex chakra. I am not referring to the Hollywood style of screaming and moaning, but rather the natural sounds that are produced through surrendering to pleasure. The 2nd gate can take anywhere from a few seconds to a half hour to open so it is vital that both people are comfortable. The very fact that time can play an essential role in female ejaculation could be why many women have never experienced it — not enough time and dedication was invested into her pleasure.
As stimulation is increased and the woman deepens her acceptance to pleasure, the waters will start to come, from as little as a teaspoon to fully soaking the mattress. The taste of this water will differ depending on the health of the woman.
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